Beautiful? No, appearance does not matter much – the psychological characteristics of the personality and emotional maturity are more important. Psychotherapist Valentina Moskalenko lists the qualities that
the woman provides for a stable love relationship.
Bad luck in love is not a sentence. Working on yourself, you can always change the situation for the better. The main thing is to learn how to appreciate yourself and not try to change others.
She will be lucky in love if.
- She loves and accepts herself entirely, even if something does not quite suit her in herself. She does not need a relationship to maintain self -esteem. She is independent and can take care of herself.
- She perceives others as they are, without trying to change them.
- It does not suppress either “negative” or “positive” emotions.
- She constantly engages in self -development, monitors her appearance.
- She has a high self -esteem. She enjoys staying in the society of men, accepting them as they are. She does not need to be needed for someone to feel that she is a worthy person.
- It allows herself to be open and gullible with some people. However, it will not allow itself to operate.
- She knows that it worthy of all the best that can offer her life
- Entering a relationship, she asks herself: “How good this relationship is for me? Whether they contribute to my height? Do I allow me to be who I can be?”
- If the relationship delivers only troubles and destroys her personality, she can say: “Let him leave,” and does not fall into despair. She has a circle of friends, her own hobbies, which allows her to survive the crisis.
- She knows how to protect herself, takes care of health and her own well -being. She does not entail a tense struggle in relationships, drama, chaos.
- She knows that stable, developing, healthy relationships are between partners who have similar values, interests and goals.
- She also knows that she is worthy of the best that life can offer her.
- Entering a relationship, she asks herself: “How good this relationship is for me? Whether they contribute to my height? Do I allow me to be who I can be?”
- If the relationship delivers only troubles and destroys her personality, she can say: “Let him leave,” and does not fall into despair. She has a circle of friends, her own hobbies, which allows her to survive the crisis.
- She knows how to protect herself, takes care of health and her own well -being. She does not entail a tense struggle in relationships, drama, chaos.
- She knows that stable, developing, healthy relationships are between partners who have similar values, interests and goals. She also knows that she is worthy of the best that life can offer her.
She is not lucky in love. Why?
Why is it often unlucky good, attentive, devoted women? Women are not to blame for this. And even the circumstances of the meeting with the partner have nothing to do with. More important – what kind of childhood they had, what relationships developed in the parental family.